Let's start "for peace", and then we will talk "for health." Our society always blames the woman and the mother. Little time was devoted to the child — a drug addict grew up; much time was devoted to the child — a dependent burdock or maniac grew up. Not so brought up, because she worked hard and the child did not feel mom's love. Or, on the contrary, she caressed so much that she raised a child “for herself”, ruining his life.
Our poor mothers, left alone and with the child after the divorce, are to blame for everything: that Sunday father does not find time for the child, or that he finds, but when he (the former) is comfortable and the mother does not give the bastard mother. Dad’s hard times and child support are impossible to wait, and a mercantile lady is tearing pennies from an unfortunate man (it’s clear, exclusively for herself). Let's be honest, after a divorce, the woman is left alone with the child, stupid men (smart ones can’t think of such a thing) she is now called a “divorced woman with a trailer”, and the “former” themselves proudly carry their big beer belly and the title “enviable bachelor” to the female masses, playing sagging biceps. They are now a tidbit.
Yes, our society always blames the mother for everything, and I fundamentally disagree with this, except for one amendment: I had to think from whom to give birth. We will talk about this in more detail now.
Well, now, as promised, "for health." Our woman dreams of great and great love, of a close-knit family, as in an advertisement for juice: when dad and mom, and child, and everything is flooded with sun. And everything is so beautiful on TV that the female desire “family is the meaning of life” completely turns off the brains, and our girls marry anyone horribly. Come on, it’s just to get married, because it often happens that she gives birth to a child in cohabitation, and now this muddy man, who was not even ready to marry her, forever becomes the father of the child. But this is already the most terrible mistake of all life, because you can divorce your husband, but you can’t change your father’s father. And then the woman wringes her hands and shouts: “I hate the father of my child!”
And what should she answer? Only one thing - you had to think before, and preferably with your head, and not with that very place. So, ladies, let's go through the list of men from whom giving birth to children will be the biggest mistake in life.
History knows a lot of examples when a married man, without abandoning his family, helps his mistress with his child, but the older the child, the more difficult it is for him to explain where the "noble" father of the family is washed off every night. And then, to the “faithful father of all families”, all this cantanker may simply get bored, and at one fine moment the man will “forget” that he somewhere has a second family.
As wise women say, the main thing is not to marry, it is not even successful to marry, but to think carefully with your head who you are going to give birth to. Because it is precisely in this situation that it will be impossible to change anything later!